While many men have found happiness and love on dating sites, but many more are afraid to give these marriage services a try. The reasons differ, but the main reason is whether women on such sites are really honest and sincere in their search for dating, love and marriage or only looking for money and the possible difficulties connected with dating women on foreign countries. A small learning about women and dating sites can go a long way towards soothing a men’s fear of the unknown. Lots of men are pleasantly surprised by the information and benefits a dating site can offer and actually some men regret not trying these service sooner.
A recent survey of 150 women in our agency revealed the following top turn ons and Turn offs:
The qualities women want in a man:
- A good sense of humor.
- Intelligence education: Women like men who are intelligent and educated. Although you don’t have a university degree or Ph.D. to make a woman’s interest. A knowledge of geography, history and current events in the world will take you far. One simple way to impress your woman is to educate yourself about her culture, traditions and country. Do some research on the internet and you will find all needed information.
- Self-confidence: Women like self-assured and confident men, so never hesitate to share your ideas and thoughts with her. Also remember, everybody has something to offer so never feel like you’re not good enough to snag a beautiful and sexy lady.
- Kindness, respect and good manners: A man can show kind behavior in several ways, including giving sincere and honest compliments.
- Sensitivity: A lot of men tend to hide their sensitive sides, so don’t.
- Optimism: No one likes a pessimist.
- Well Groomed and clean: Just as men want to date a woman who is neat and clean, women prefer men who take care of their look. It is simple, a clean shirt, a freshly shaved face and a little cologne go a long ways in attracting any woman.
- A nice smile: Women love men with a great and a nice smile. A nice smile shows you are cheerful man who enjoys life.
The qualities women find unattractive and unpleasant:
- Bad behavior: The biggest way to turn a girl off is to show bad manners. Neglecting to say thank you or please, will send a girl warning signs about you.
- Lying: Don’t lies about your life, job, salary, age, etc. Lying simply means that you are suffering from low self-esteem or have got something to hide.
- Arrogance: Though any man tends to broadcast his best qualities, keep the boasting to a minimum if you want to win that special woman.
- Self-absorbed or self-centered manners: There’s little that annoy women more than men who behave as if they are the center of the world. Always express interest in a woman’s life, ask her questions, make her know you are interested in something other than yourself.
- Impoliteness and rudeness: (treat others as you’d like to be treated) is a very good proverb to keep in mind. You can never go wrong by taking women’s feelings into consideration.
- Dirty look: Women don’t like an unkempt or dirty men. So shave, take a shower and put on a clean clothes. Sending a woman a bathroom photo with pajamas isn’t going to impress any woman. Moreover women are known for their stylish clothing and perfect appearance, thus the last thing you want to do is look like a slob or scruff by her side. Also no need to tell you that you should not send her nude photos or ask her to do the same. …. NEVER do this.
- Laziness: Women like determined and ambitious men. They don’t like men who are pleased sitting on the sofa all day. Remember any passion is better than none at all, so, work out, throw yourself into a hobby, or work on bettering yourself.
- Sex that is always on the brain: We all know that men think about sex more often than women. But most women don’t fancy men who always expresses their sexual desires. This is particularly true in new relationships. SO when sending a woman a first few emails, don’t even think about talking about sex.